tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post5706959484501401188..comments2023-11-05T05:59:33.041-05:00Comments on Sara McClung: In any language . . .Sara {Rhapsody and Chaos}http://www.blogger.com/profile/09824996048264979275noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-44307048657764170652012-07-15T23:57:24.436-04:002012-07-15T23:57:24.436-04:00It definitely does put us a mile ahead to simply k...It definitely does put us a mile ahead to simply keep the thought of being kind in our heads, somewhere. Even when we slip, we know our goal and we can get back on track. Sounds to me like you handled a nasty situation admirably, though. My hubby would have fared far worse! ;)Alina Kleinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07499769990637055382noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-61170756549873783792012-07-15T17:34:27.707-04:002012-07-15T17:34:27.707-04:00Wonderful post....WTG on keeping your cool during ...Wonderful post....WTG on keeping your cool during the 5 days without power. I like what you said about kindness being a way of life. Very nice!Sharon K. Mayhewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07799235347319851345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-21035175475983617522012-07-13T01:58:14.789-04:002012-07-13T01:58:14.789-04:00So true!! Boo on the loss of power. 5 days would b...So true!! Boo on the loss of power. 5 days would be like an eternity. So kudos for being kind through that. Baby steps lead to big steps, so that's great that you noticed that and checked yourself. Being kind is an everyday thing, something you have to work at (we all do) Sounds like you're on the right track ;o)<br /><br />I love how creative and visual your posts are ;o)erica m. chapmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14773306703153110737noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-76535922906397365532012-07-12T19:43:18.742-04:002012-07-12T19:43:18.742-04:00How funny - the theme this month is Baby Steps of ...How funny - the theme this month is Baby Steps of Kindness. What a great realisation to come to. We don't all have to be perfect. Yahooo! Little bits of kindness whenever we can. Thanks.Claire Hennessyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16576410137759875223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-87725982462958449972012-07-12T17:57:14.340-04:002012-07-12T17:57:14.340-04:00Exactly - just the awareness itself does a huge am...Exactly - just the awareness itself does a huge amount for our own expansion. Sometimes awareness is all we need to completely shift our perspective in a moment.Sophia Changhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10946233873722107937noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-82627807526153539522012-07-12T00:15:11.697-04:002012-07-12T00:15:11.697-04:00I'm sorry you've had a rough month! This p...I'm sorry you've had a rough month! This post is so true though, sometimes it's the fact that you're even thinking about it and trying that makes all the difference. Those baby steps can take you down great paths if you keep on keeping on. :-)Sara B. Larsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14213313028658810705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-48570899141265371462012-07-11T22:08:04.262-04:002012-07-11T22:08:04.262-04:00I think it's sinking in with me more & mor...I think it's sinking in with me more & more each month too. These posts help. I like baby steps because it is still moving forward.Christa Desirhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15614441465633549710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-46299934794557489702012-07-11T20:37:14.706-04:002012-07-11T20:37:14.706-04:00This is what we call "strengths-based." ...This is what we call "strengths-based." We're human, after all. Perfect is a ridiculous target, so it doesn't make sense to beat oneself up for not reaching it. And--when in stressful situations, it is normal to act stressed. I heartily agree that making the effort to show restraint and being mindful of how one's behavior affects others is a much more sustainable, attainable, and productive activity on which to focus.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06636585111057799728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-13538064146388305622012-07-11T19:48:08.781-04:002012-07-11T19:48:08.781-04:00There's that whole thing about making a choice...There's that whole thing about making a choice to be kind. I think there's something to that. Even if you don't feel it on the inside, what's that thing? Fake it til you feel it?<br /><br />Good work, Sara! At least you paid it forward w/kindness. :o) <3LTMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05239077455322030275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-62301119720273764492012-07-11T16:54:25.566-04:002012-07-11T16:54:25.566-04:00Great post! I agree with what Mary and Carol said....Great post! I agree with what Mary and Carol said. Continuous kindness is hard. We can all have moments of temper, but I love that you said this isn't failure. The fact that we make the effort to get back on the kindness path is the important thing. :)Lindsayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04313619484424363895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-60537765756453939572012-07-11T15:10:44.779-04:002012-07-11T15:10:44.779-04:00Ditto on what Mary said. Kindness is really hard. ...Ditto on what Mary said. Kindness is really hard. I don't know anyone that is kind all the time, especially in difficult circumstances. Not sure it ever gets easier, really. Maybe we all go through life with baby steps. But the fact that you're thinking about it, or even struggling with it? That says a lot. So many people...it never even crosses their minds. You're ahead of the curve, my friend. And I'm honored to call you friend. A kind friend at that.<br /><br />Also, when can I see you again????? It's been too long. Seriously. Going through Sara withdrawal here.Carolina M. Valdez Schneiderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11589934533051907801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-44041483915997194262012-07-11T13:42:30.319-04:002012-07-11T13:42:30.319-04:00I'd say 99.9% of people struggle with being ki...I'd say 99.9% of people struggle with being kind 50% of the time. It's hard. People can be exceptionally mean. People can do and say really stupid things and sometimes it takes all your willpower and strength to take a deep breath and smile. But a lot of times, that smile will knock the mean right out of them or (hopefully) knock some sense into them. It doesn't always work but it's definitely worth the time to take a deep breath (or ten) and try.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04503349476515967696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-16308496152991691302012-07-11T12:47:43.521-04:002012-07-11T12:47:43.521-04:00I would argue that exercising restraint when you h...I would argue that exercising restraint when you have every right to flip out is its own manner of kindness.Matthew MacNishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03264738483763244969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-53264541762127644932012-07-11T12:32:20.480-04:002012-07-11T12:32:20.480-04:00I think of that as being in neutral, which isn'...I think of that as being in neutral, which isn't the worst place to be. We have to go with the energy we have in the moment, and sometimes just holding in the explosion is all we can do. That's really ok. It's actually kind of great when the alternative is being mean.Michele Shawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16768815750264631798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-28384038107051252472012-07-11T11:56:35.803-04:002012-07-11T11:56:35.803-04:00Such great encouragement. It's easy to give up...Such great encouragement. It's easy to give up on being kind--especially if our kindness is thrown back at us--but struggling on keeps kindness a reality.Barbara Watsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06547166495514562286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-44555042857059533992012-07-11T10:25:20.341-04:002012-07-11T10:25:20.341-04:00Yes...baby steps. Any step, no matter how small, i...Yes...baby steps. Any step, no matter how small, in the right direction is a good thing. :)<br /><br /><3 <3 <3Lola Sharphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14394765053485642935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-68338656036408762052012-07-11T10:02:18.791-04:002012-07-11T10:02:18.791-04:00What a beautiful post, Sara. It is so easy to be s...What a beautiful post, Sara. It is so easy to be snarky and mean. I was just not so nice to my mother the other day and I'm calling today to apologize - baby steps in the right direction, right?? :-) I am glad to hear you got power back. I've missed your blog posts! <br />All the best,Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18076907708483883575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8662203671583091505.post-89848627099554320652012-07-11T09:48:11.069-04:002012-07-11T09:48:11.069-04:00"...even bothering to struggle puts you a mil..."...even bothering to struggle puts you a mile ahead of the rest of the game."<br /><br />Absolutely! It's so easy to go the automatic route and snap and be mean. Just like a muscle, I think kindness needs to be exercised...and baby steps or giant leaps, they're all headed in the right direction. :)Liza Kanehttp://lizakane.menoreply@blogger.com